Salient Magazine
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20th March 2022
Worlds Away but Closer Than Ever: Repairing My Relationship With My Mother
I have 20,000 photos on my phone, and almost none of them are of my mother. When people ask to see what she looks like, I am forced to scroll furiously back to 2015 and dig up memories that seem a lifetime away. But I do have photos of her. Actually, I have a whole wall above my desk adorned with photos of my parents. In these photos, they explore Finland, Germany, Lithuania, Indonesia, take trips to my dad’s hometown in rural China, and attend extravagant dinner soirées. There are no under-eye